Tuesday, February 10, 2009

Eros

What is the correct way to show a girl affection? Here's the hard part --in a Godly fashion. Sometimes I think it'd be easier to have God put me into a deep Sleep and take one of my ribs and make me a wife like Adam.
I want to let her know, "Hey, I like you --a lot. I had the perfect girl in mind, but she seems so flawed compared to you. We have the same passions and pretty much the same brain wave. I would like to pursue you and get to know you better." 
Hmmm, well at least God has a sense of humor because we tend to make things more complicated, I am pretty sure He's got my life favorited on His Tivo.
The humor in this is that she'll probably read this eventually and wonder who it is or she'll look for hints that it's her. The funny part is these "hints" are often just misinterpreted and result in a fall out of a friendship or relationship, so what to do?
Maybe God is just waiting for me to become the man I need to be for her or her to become the woman she needs to be for me. Well at least I know that if she likes me, then she likes me for who I want and strive to be, not who I was.
Blah, Blah, Blah. 
This is all just meaningless chatter haha

Ephesians, Everything happens in God's timing. I know it'll be worth the wait and if things don't wok out, then I know God  not only has someone better in store for me, but her as well:)

Now that  think of it God is a lot more like Jane Austen than I thought, except he has written way more love stories and His love stories are way more realistic! 

I know I cheated and blogged twice today I'm soory, this has just been on my mind and I needed to vent a bit hahaha<--Awkward laugh

1 comment:

  1. Good thoughts - its not easy, Ryan.
    When I was in Africa I had a guy tell me that the way to find the partner God has for you is to do what Adam did - He was going around doing what God told him to do, naming all the animals and it was GOD who decided that Adam needed somebody. So He put him to sleep and made the perfect partner for him. He just woke up and boom- there she was! He didn't have to go looking or anything. So just keep seeking God and doing what He's telling you to do. At the right time you'll open your eyes and she'll be there!

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